1.Your best friend has moved across the country. How often do you head out to see her?
a. You make a special trip at least once a year.
b. You visit her once every couple of years.
c. You sneak in a visit when work brings you to her neck of the woods.
d. You rarely see her, but you do talk on the phone and e-mail a whole lot.
Zy's answer: a. You make a special trip at least once a year.

2.You've been known to flirt with your friend's boyfriend or husband.
a. True.
b. False.
Zy's answer: b. False.

3.Your friend is making a bigger-than-big mistake in the love arena, but she is supersensitive to criticism. You:
a. Keep quiet. You don't want to cause a rift between the two of you.
b. Indirectly offer advice by talking about someone else with this problem.
c. Start giving guidance, but back off if she's really resistant.
d. Speak your mind and don't back off. You'd rather lose the friendship than let her go on hurting herself.
Zy's answer: c. Start giving guidance, but back off if she's really resistant.

4.Several people in your tight circle have told you that a close friend has said some unflattering words about you. You:
a. Confront your trash-talking friend. If the rumor is true, the relationship is over.
b. Confront your so-called pal. If it's true, you may still be friendly but the bond is forever changed.
c. Tell your friend what you've heard. If it's true, discuss it, learn from it, and go on with your friendship as before.
d. Forget about it. There's no need to shake up the friendship. Even if she did say something you don't like, you're not going to let it bother you.
Zy's answer: c. Tell your friend what you've heard. If it's true, discuss it, learn from it, and go on with your friendship as before.

5.You've bought your friend a gift that you'd love to keep for yourself. But you wrap it up and give it to her -- it's too perfect a present for her.
a. True.
b. False.
Zy's answer: a. True.

6.You're hosting an important dinner party for a jaw-dropping VIP, and your friend has been hankering for an invite. The thing is, she has some odd personality quirks -- and this is an important event. You:
a. Tell her she can't attend. It's too important to chance her mucking it up.
b. Invite her over for cocktails, but not for dinner.
c. Extend the invite, but give her instructions about how to act.
d. Ask her to join you and remind her how important this event is. You know it's risky, but you can't bear to hurt her feelings.
Zy's answer: d. Ask her to join you and remind her how important this event is. You know it's risky, but you can't bear to hurt her feelings.

7.One of your best buds asks you to recommend her for a job at your company, but you're not sure she's right for it. You:
a. Write the best letter of recommendation you can possibly write.
b. Say you don't think the job is right for her, so you'd rather not.
c. Say you will, but tell her you'll have to make your reservations known in the letter.
d. Write a lukewarm letter of recommendation; you don't want your honesty called into question if she doesn't work out.
Zy's answer: d. Write a lukewarm letter of recommendation; you don't want your honesty called into question if she doesn't work out.

SOME choices in the questions are misleading :p.